Подключение с локального сервера (denwer) к удаленной к БД

$allCount = mysql_query("SELECT * FROM `count`");
    while($p = mysql_fetch_assoc($allCount))
     {
       $AllOption .="<option value='".$p['name']."'>".$p['name']."</option>";
      }

$userCountQuery = mysql_query("SELECT * FROM `user_count` WHERE login='".$login."' AND date_end > ".time()." AND name ='".$name."'");

while($a = mysql_fetch_assoc($userCountQuery))
 {
       $allCount = mysql_query("SELECT * FROM `count` WHERE name NOT LIKE '".$a['name']."'");
    while($p = mysql_fetch_assoc($allCount))
     {
       $AllOption .="<option value='".$p['name']."'>".$p['name']."</option>";
      }
}

$userCountQuery = mysql_query("SELECT * FROM `user_count` WHERE login='".$login."' AND date_end > ".time()." AND name ='".$name."'");
$assocUserCountQuery = mysql_fetch_assoc($userCountQuery);
 $allCount = mysql_query("SELECT * FROM `count` WHERE name NOT LIKE '".$assocUserCountQuery['name']."'");
    while($p = mysql_fetch_assoc($allCount))
     {
       $AllOption .="<option value='".$p['name']."'>".$p['name']."</option>";
      }

SET PASSWORD =OLD_PASSWORD('your_existing_password')

<?php
  $dbset = array(
    'host'    => 'vhXX.hoster.tld', // Некий удалённый хост вида vhXX.hoster.tld
    'user'    => 'user', // Юзверь БД
    'pass'    => 'pass', // Пароль БД
    'name'  => 'name' // Имя БД
  );
 
  $dbset['pass'] = '*'.strtoupper(sha1(sha1($dbset['pass'],true)));
 
  $db = @new mysqli(
    $dbset['host'],
    $dbset['user'],
    $dbset['pass'],
    $dbset['name'],
    3306
  );
 
  if ($db->connect_error) die('Error ('.$db->connect_errno.'): '.$db->connect_error);
?>